According to urban legends, men think about sex every second of the day and even more at night. Even though this is a generalization, it is true that men think about sex more often than women do. Of course, there are some exceptions to the rule, so finding a woman more lustful than you can even imagine is not necessarily impossible. Thinking that men are up to it irrespective of the time and place, while women are more mindful about appearances and the environment, makes us conclude that women are less willing. This disparity between the level of desire felt by men and women makes men become self-conscious and think they are probably not that great in bed and all men want to rock their partner’s world and become the master of her pleasure.

If you are worrying about her lack of interest, rest assured, women could be really lustful too, even more so than men, the trick is to know how to push her buttons. She requires some touching before she loses herself and stops minding the place and all the other silly things. We are simply constructed differently, but the desire for sex is equal, so you only need to learn a few tricks and discover her soft spots before you will be able to make her feel in heat with but a meaningful glance. Here are the most sensitive female zones, and the erogenous areas you should concentrate on before sex in order to make her all wet, ready and asking for more. Contrary to expectations, the clitoris, vagina and nipples trio is not the key to success, you need to start slow and build up tension at first with less known, but equally erogenous zones.

1. Start with a light scalp massage

The skin on the top of her head is extremely sensitive to the touch so lightly running your fingers through her hair and massaging her head with your fingertips will help her not only relax, but also make her heat up. These massages are soothing and sensual at the same time, so there is no better stimulation than this especially if you want to arouse her without being too obvious.

2. Do not stop at kissing

The lips have numerous nerve endings, which is why we find kissing so pleasurable. If you wish to get her gasping for air and wanting more and more, you should start by kissing her lightly at first and getting rougher and rougher with each attempt. Kiss, bite and lick all you want, because she will not mind after a minute. Stop from time to time, run your fingertip over her lips and slowly approach her with your own lips without kissing her, just breathing heavily on her mouth will make her instantly aroused.

3. Trace the C-shape of her ear with your fingertip

Gently kissing her ears, biting them softly and licking them will make her numb with pleasure. This is a sensitive zone you will also like playing with. You can go from the neck, which is also a zone she will like kissed and touched, up to the area behind the ear and the gently bit her earlobe and suck on it. It will make her go crazy. You can also start from her back to her lower neck until you reach her ear. Simply breathing into her ear will make her aroused, if you kissed and licked her nape before that.